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Grey Divorce: Navigating Separation in Later Life

Rights of Grandparents on Separation

It can be easy to forget that the change the immediate family unit are going through is also being experienced by grandparents. With children often spending their time with one parent at a time after divorce, precious time with their grandparents can be squeezed, leaving everybody feeling like they are missing out.

Business on Divorce

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collaborative divorce

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Grey Divorce: Navigating Separation in Later Life

Arbitration: an option for Children Arrangements

The proponents of arbitration emphasise the privacy that it brings (particularly for clients in whom the media may be interested); the fact that if desired, the couple can select their arbitrator and the location of the arbitration hearing; and that on the day they can be guaranteed a prompt start without the Judge being occupied with other matters. The location (usually a solicitor’s office or barrister’s chambers) is generally an improvement on court waiting rooms.

Grey Divorce: Navigating Separation in Later Life

Alternatives to Court

Resolving financial matters by making an application to the court may not be the best route for every couple facing divorce. For some, alternative dispute resolution methods such as mediation, collaborative law and arbitration offer quicker and often more cost effective solutions.

Divorce Finances

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Grey Divorce: Navigating Separation in Later Life

Can Discretionary Trusts be Protected on Divorce?

Discretionary trusts are where the beneficiaries and / or their entitlements to assets are in a trust fund but are not fixed. They are determined by the person who set up the trust (the settlor). Where the trust is a testamentary trust (i.e. made in a Will), it is common for the settlor to sign a Letter of Wishes which relates to the exercise of the discretion.

Grey Divorce: Navigating Separation in Later Life

Is Cohabitation Grounds for Maintenance to End?

The payment of spousal maintenance is often a tricky issue in divorce cases. It becomes even trickier when the receiving party, usually the wife, starts to cohabit and the husband feels that it is not fair that he should be expected to continue to support his ex. Is the fact of cohabitation grounds for the maintenance to come to an end and the wife’s claims dismissed once and for all?

Grey Divorce: Navigating Separation in Later Life

Financial Provision in Divorce Cases

The Courts rely upon the 3 principles of needs, sharing and compensation when deciding upon the allocation of financial assets in divorce cases. Each principle is considered in every case but in the majority of cases it will be the needs of the parties which will be the driving factor determining how the financial pot is shared between the parties.

Grey Divorce: Navigating Separation in Later Life

Untangling Assets on Divorce

Divorce can be bewildering for clients. Should they try and sort things out with their partner? Or should they go to mediation or would going to court likely mean a better result? This is a massive decision and the needs of each client can vary dramatically.

Nuptial agreements

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Grey Divorce: Navigating Separation in Later Life

Using a Nuptial Agreement to Protect a Personal Injury Award

1. There is the expectation that, if the provision in the pre or post nuptial agreement is fair and has been regularly reviewed by the couple and recorded as fair, that the court will allow the terms of the agreement to stand even if, had there not been an agreement, the court would have made a different order.

2. The cases seem to show that even where the courts have moved away from all of the provisions of a pre or post nuptial agreement, their award to the person seeking to back out from the terms of the agreement is usually lower than would otherwise have been the case. The existence of the pre or post nuptial agreement often reduces the provision that is made.

3. The existence of a pre or post nuptial agreement can discourage litigation overall. If the couple have agreed the provision that they each feel is fair, then there is no reason for either of them to want to litigate and seek something different. The court is only involved to set aside all or some part of an agreement if one party asks it to, it does not come in of its own accord to challenge the terms agreed.
A pre or post nuptial agreement has to be drawn up by lawyers and each person has to have independent legal advice, to understand what their claims might have been so they are fully aware if they are accepting less than they might otherwise receive, if there were a divorce.

There are additional rules in respect of a pre nuptial agreement to prevent one person entering into it under inappropriate pressure, very close to the wedding. It is important to speak to a solicitor in good time (at least 3 months in advance and ideally more) about drawing up a pre nuptial agreement as it will carry far less weight if it is completed very close to the wedding.

In reported cases where there has been a substantial personal injury award, the courts have shown that they are still prepared to take the capital awarded as part of the pot available for distribution so it is particularly important to record any agreement between a couple that it will remain with one person to address their needs, in a pre or post nuptial agreement.

Grey Divorce: Navigating Separation in Later Life

Protecting Wealth Passed to Children

When making a gift to your adult son or daughter it is important to understand that, if their relationship were to subsequently break down, that gift can become the property of their Partner, whether they are married or not. How can such gifts be best protected?

parental & Children’s rights

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Grey Divorce: Navigating Separation in Later Life

Arbitration: an option for Children Arrangements

The proponents of arbitration emphasise the privacy that it brings (particularly for clients in whom the media may be interested); the fact that if desired, the couple can select their arbitrator and the location of the arbitration hearing; and that on the day they can be guaranteed a prompt start without the Judge being occupied with other matters. The location (usually a solicitor’s office or barrister’s chambers) is generally an improvement on court waiting rooms.

Grey Divorce: Navigating Separation in Later Life

Agreeing Holiday Arrangements for your Children when Separated

One of the issues that often comes in to play is what happens to a pre-existing visit or care pattern? If a child spends every other weekend and one night each week with one parent in term time, does that carry on during the school holidays? It may be clear that it needs to be suspended when one or other parent takes the child away on an actual holiday, but what about those weeks in between when little Johnny is at a holiday club or Grandma comes to stay to help out?

Grey Divorce: Navigating Separation in Later Life

Rights of Grandparents on Separation

It can be easy to forget that the change the immediate family unit are going through is also being experienced by grandparents. With children often spending their time with one parent at a time after divorce, precious time with their grandparents can be squeezed, leaving everybody feeling like they are missing out.

Grey Divorce: Navigating Separation in Later Life

Protecting Wealth Passed to Children

When making a gift to your adult son or daughter it is important to understand that, if their relationship were to subsequently break down, that gift can become the property of their Partner, whether they are married or not. How can such gifts be best protected?

Grey Divorce: Navigating Separation in Later Life

Court’s Approach to Spousal Maintenance Orders

There are various financial claims that can be brought by the parties under the umbrella of divorce proceedings, one of which is spousal maintenance. Where there is an ongoing entitlement to maintenance post divorce, the question arises should this be a joint lives order (i.e. until one of them dies) or should there be a cut-off point in the future? If so why and when?

Pensions on Divorce

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Property on Divorce

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Grey Divorce: Navigating Separation in Later Life

Is a house purchased before marriage a marital asset?

When looking at how to deal with the claims of any couple on divorce, the court (and a solicitor advising outside of the court process) is governed by section 25 of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973. This lists the matters that the court has to take into account. At the top of the list is the needs of any child under 18 years, followed by the needs of the parties, the resources they each have jointly and separately, their ages, health, the length of the marriage and the standard of living they enjoyed together. The “sharing principle” is not found in this list but is a judicial gloss and a principle that can be quite strictly applied to marital assets.

Unmarried couples’ finances

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Grey Divorce: Navigating Separation in Later Life

Unmarried Couples and Property Rights

There are significant differences in how the law deals with property depending on whether you are married or not. If you are not married, the law does not recognise you as a couple and this doesn’t change depending on how long you have lived together or if you have children. So, what are your options?

Grey Divorce: Navigating Separation in Later Life

Unmarried Couples: Your Rights on Separation

Unless there is a property or other asset held in joint names, then the starting point is that you have no claims against anything owned by the other party. Nor is there any obligation on one partner from a cohabiting relationship to provide maintenance to the other, although if there are children then all claims for child maintenance remain unaffected.

Grey Divorce: Navigating Separation in Later Life

Is Cohabitation Grounds for Maintenance to End?

The payment of spousal maintenance is often a tricky issue in divorce cases. It becomes even trickier when the receiving party, usually the wife, starts to cohabit and the husband feels that it is not fair that he should be expected to continue to support his ex. Is the fact of cohabitation grounds for the maintenance to come to an end and the wife’s claims dismissed once and for all?

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